Well, Sofian is just about 24 hours old and he's doing pretty well -- seems to be latching onto Parie for nourishment fairly well, has a good set of lungs but can also be calmed down pretty easily, and is a super
meconium pooper. For those of you who didn't get my email of welcome, here's a bit of a recap:
The NameWe actually have had the name selected for quite some time, but it took all our stamina (well, I should say it took mine - Parie's as cool as a cucumber) not to reveal the name ahead of time to everyone. The name came out of our search for names for both sexes, with Sofia selected for a girl and Ian selected for a boy. And we just started referring to the bun in the oven as Sof-Ian before we knew for sure he was a he. But we found that we'd come to like that mashed up name, so we hunted around to see if Sofian was really a name. It is, and it's found in several cultures including French (where it means wisdom; we also found a couple of soccer players and musicians with the name), Arabic (where it means devoted), and Islamic/Bangladeshi (where it means sandstorm; I originally thought this was a Hindi translation, but I'm still looking for just the right sourcing on this). His two middle names come out of our family histories: James was Parie's father and Harley was the brother of Agen's Grandmother (Babe).
Long DayIt was a hard slog of a labor. Parie's water broke around 8:30pm on Friday, after which we went to the hospital and found out we'd not be sent home (due to the possibility of infection with the breaking of the amniotic fluids). Parie worked hard with very concerted contractions until about 5am, when we found out she was only dillated 5cm. That was a little heartbreaking, so we ordered up an epidural for her, which slowed things down for a bit -- but provided us with some rest. We were joined by our good friend Anne Gienapp as our doula, and Parie's Mom (Linda, aka Old Fogey over at
Cracks in the Facade) made it in from Raleigh with her husband John well in time for the birth.
Sofian kept on moving and pushing, but it was finally determined after 5pm on Saturday that Parie was going to need a C-section, which was definitely disheartening for all the work we put in. Unfortunately, our usual doctor, Dr. Mary Weiss, was out of town during all this, but we were in the capable arms of one of the other doctors from the practice. She kept working with us to try to go with the vaginal birth. However, no matter how much Sofian push and twisted himself, he just couldn't make it those last few inches.
In the end, it went very well (I'll never get the image of the little guy being manhandled out of my wife's stomach) and we're glad that it brought everything to finality -- and to bringing Sofian to the world. I got to hold him and introduce him to Parie as she was stitched up after the procedure. I couldn't stop crying -- it really was the most momentous day of my life (second only to the day that Parie and I got married).
Here I am getting suited and booted.

And here's Sofian just moments after making his debut.

For those of you making wagers, the official weight is 7 pounds, 5.4 ounces. He was also 19.5 inches long.

Here I am bringing him back to the room to get ready for Mom (and to meet Anne and Linda).

He's got a good head of hair (which is a reddish brown -- a good amalgem of mine and Parie's).

Getting a moment's rest.

Writing his first blog post (with his papa helping out on the keyboard).

Today we were visited by Anne and her husband Eric and two girls Mari and Clara, who've been very excited to meet our little guy. We were presented a postcard by Mari that has an American flag on the front with the words "Another American for Peace" highlighted into the flag, and Sofian's quite happy to help out the cause. I wish he was just a few days older so that we could go to one of the anti-Iraq War protest marches going on tomorrow here in Seattle. But Sofian is quite excited about seeing Attorney General Gonzo getting frog-marched out of DC (he told me that this morning as we surveyed by RSS reader hoping to find out that he'd finally resigned).
We're still running slow/late on contacting folks via the phone, as cell phones aren't allowed in the hospital room and we forgot to get a calling card (a situation that's been remedied). It also hasn't helped that my Palm Treo 680 crashed out the evening Parie was going into labor, but that's another tetchy/techy rant for another time. We're also still pretty pooped, so we'll be getting on the horn in the next day or so to say hi to folks and respond to those who've called.
We also got some great replies to our email from yesterday, including
"Please make sure the wee man is a Chelsea fan." - Andrew McCombie (already working on that on, AC)
"Smart Kid.........wish he was in Congress already!!!" - Bob Kinney
"Welcome Sofian JH Hines, sounds like an author's name if I ever heard of one." - DGA in Brussels
"Thanks for restoring my faith that good, smart, compassionate people are also reproducing." -
CreightonThat's all for now. Much more to come...